Xariah (13) selected as 1st Friend Mail Recipient of 2026-2027 School Year! 💝
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"Very quiet and private" 8th Grader finds the courage to speak up after relentless racial bullying.

13-year-old Xariah is "empathetic, selfless and shy," says her mom. The 8th Grader from Arkansas loves to paint, and has a talent for writing and illustrating books. One of her favorite things is being immersed in the stories, cats and clans of the "Warrior Cats" book series! 🐈⬛ When she grows up, her dream is to launch global wildlife reserves for endangered animals.
Xariah's kindness doesn’t stop with animals. Her mom says Xariah is always looking for something nice to do for others. She's "known for doing acts-of-kindness for others"... and not telling anyone! One time, Xariah saved up enough money doing yard work to buy a new pair of shoes for a classmate that was picked on for having off-brand shoes. Her mom didn't even find out about it until the boy's mother thanked her.
For her 11th birthday, Xariah told her parents she did not want any presents, but instead asked for money - and then bought $500 worth of pet products to donate to a local shelter.
The empathetic Arkansan (who turns 14 in September) hopes to protect endangered animals in their natural habitats when she grows up. 🧡
It's hard to imagine a more caring person than this kind Arkansas teen - or that she has endured years of heart-wrenching bullying, targeted with racially-based slurs, name-calling and social exclusion - even cutting her hair on the school bus. This relentless bullying followed her - and her 4 siblings - through years of school in Indiana to their current home in Arkansas.
Xariah's mom says that - of her 5 children - Xariah is the quiet, private one who prefers not to draw attention to herself - not even for acts of kindness! But after being called the "n-word" one more time while walking to school, she summoned the courage to let her mom post about the bullying, and to talk to a local NBC news affiliate.
“I am extremely upset about what he said to me. And I don’t know why he would say that to somebody,” she told the reporter. Now, the news feature reports, Xariah wants to turn the experience into something positive. She plans to start a club at school designed to help more students feel included and supported!
XARIAH'S STORY YOUTUBE
By Teen Kindness Board Vlogger, Mariama Diop!
Note: Once Xariah's story is approved by parents, her story video will be created and embedded here!
Ambassadors, help us celebrate Xariah for speaking-out against bullying, and give her the kindness she has so freely given to others.💞 Let's remind this brave, young 'Upstander' that she is not alone, that there are peers who see her, stand with her and believe in the difference she can make - just by being herself. 😁💌
EVERY LETTER IS A GIFT.
THE MORE SUPPORT, THE GREATER THE IMPACT.

Due Date for XARIAH'S "FRIEND MAIL" is OCTOBER 19th!
Mail "PHYSICAL" letters to:
Be A Friend Project
P.O. Box 30
Beacon, NY 12508
Email letters, videos, scans & Google Drive links, send to:
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(PDF HAND-OUT)
Note: Once Xariah's story is approved by parents, her hand-out will be created and downloadable here.




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